One of the strongest ways in which men are heteosexualised is by giving them an extremely strong and enormous ego. Consequently, Straight men have HUGE egos.
What is this ego really? An ego can be roughly translated as a false, negative pride, a haughtiness.
This False ego passes off for natural manhood in men. However unlike men whose pride is built on natural manhood, this ego is hollow and hence all those powerful men appear extremely hollow if you peep within. Women have been complaining this for generations. But they hardly realise that they've been an instrument in this as well.
Unfortunately, the enormous social recognistion that makes this ego is given only once when proves that he has fought with and mutilated his inner self, his real, natural manhood -- especially his need for another man.
And therefore, straight men have such trouble accepting their sexual need for another man, to own such feelings, because this huge ego stands between them and their own feelings.
And this is why straight men take forever to come to terms with themselves when they unwittingly get into a relationship with another man. They have to struggle a lot to and they could never take any initiatives or acknowledge their love or interest in the guy they love dearly. Because, the huge wall of ego prevents their feelings from coming out in the open.
If the relationship is ever acknowledged, even if only in the privacy with the man they've been having sex with for several days, they'd break the relationship most cruelly, however involved they maybe... because they'd rather prefer death than acknowledge their sexual interest in another man. Their intense feeling for their lover may be very high during this time, but not higher than the enormous wall of ego.
Of course Ego is not the only factor, but one of the important factors that comes in the way of straight men and their sexual need for men.
The Ego makes men haughty, unapproachable and stiff as steel when faced with a situation where their sexual need for men is invoked even in the slightest manner -- which means that they have to be this way often, since unless they do that, the feelings can always come out and overpower them.
The forces of heterosexualisation that are in power have thus bought the souls of men, by giving them fake but enormous ego that they are afraid of breaking. So they do as the forces of heterosexualisation want them to do.
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